Hello to all the Doms/Dommes/Masters/Mistresses/submissives/slav... moreHello to all the Doms/Dommes/Masters/Mistresses/submissives/slaves and quietsoul.
I have been here a while and thought it was about time I introduced myself. I am a quiet and shy person who prefers staying at home knitting socks for wounded hedgehogs than being out and about on the "scene". I live with my family of marmosets and penguins in the wilds of windy Berkshire (makes note not to eat so many baked beans).
I am the bestest submissive that ever walked the earth and anything I say is right and if anyone else thinks differently they are WRONG (there I used caps so it must be true!).
Oh and if quietsoul reads this or comments on it please ignore her cos she comes from Scottishland and knows nothing.
(This message was bought to you by the letter b for boredom and the number 1 cos i'm alone and fed up!! Oh and it's purely tongue in cheek *smiles sweetly* except the bit about quietsoul).
hi folks, i have been here a while and have some great friends j... morehi folks, i have been here a while and have some great friends just thought i would stop by and say hi to a wider audience, come chat, all friends welcome
I declare the last Sunday of August "Selfie Sunday" The challeng... moreI declare the last Sunday of August "Selfie Sunday" The challenge is to post a selfie on Sunday to this thread!
The best will win a prize that I will find at the car boot sale tomorrow morning!
To help you/inspire you...
Selfies, or what to do, and not to do in your profile photo.
following is an example of a bad selfie.
However you could do it like this...
Let the fun begin, tell your friends and start snapping!
A question specifically for Doms and Dommes who have, at some po... moreA question specifically for Doms and Dommes who have, at some point, chosen to assume the role of submissive simply to gain an understanding of it. If this is something you have done what did you learn? What did you like and dislike? What did you change as a result?
(I know there is a separate debate to be had about whether Dommes and Doms should /need/try to kneel in a subs place for a day. There is a forum topic specifically for that question. Here I hope to get an insight from those who have done it and from switches who experience both sides) less
I was inspired to write this after reading a comment on the main... moreI was inspired to write this after reading a comment on the main stream.
Its kind of a given that submissive females (by no means all) have a sexual relationship with their dominant. For the dominants who choose not to have a sexual relationship with their female submissive or indeed the female doesn't want to have sex with the dominant, its normally because they are either in another committed relationship (often vanilla) and so want dominating without the commitment of anything sexual or chastity is part of their kink. I'm sure there are other reasons but I'll leave you to fill me in.....
Many dominant women don't want to have sex with a male submissive. They will happily have sex with a female submissive if they happen to be bi or lesbian but male submissives don't often get to fuck around in the bedroom. Now of course we have fem Dommes in fully committed relationships. Dommes who marry their submissives, have children together and live happily ever after. Over the years though, I have heard many a Domme cla... less
This one agrees that Gor probably comes under the umbrella of Ms... moreThis one agrees that Gor probably comes under the umbrella of Ms/Ds which probably comes under the general umbrella of bdsm (so yeah, people have probably been doing Ms/Ds for years before Gor.
This one feels sad that people often jump to the conclusion that when Gor is practiced it is in an extreme, obsessive and nerdy way but like with bdsm, that probably only refers to the minority within the minority whereby the rest of the people who practice Gor are probably as down to earth as any other demographic of the bdsm community or society in general.
Think what this one is trying to say is that whether it be general bdsm or Gor or the local cycling club, the extreme anorachs are probably not representative of the group as a whole so it makes this one disappointed that people seem quick to paint the whole Gor thing with the one brush. less
If someone came into my home and pissed on my carpet I would be ... moreIf someone came into my home and pissed on my carpet I would be none too happy. Why though, is it acceptable for our community to piss on Goreans.?
Like others here, I have tried reading the John Norman books but without a vested interest, I found them tedious because unlike others, I was unable to find reality within the fantasy. My imagination just isn’t big enough or active enough to delve into these books and see anything more than a clever mans daydream. I often wonder if such over active imaginations (Gor people) are generally more creative and artistic in their every day life.
My personal opinion shouldn’t matter though. Just because I don’t understand something doesn’t make it less real for those that do.
What I do understand is, its a choice made by people to unite within what they see as a harmless structured environment. Nobody is brainwashed. People can make their own decision to stay or leave at any time. The only consequences for the followers of Gor is on a personal level. ... less
I wouldn't necessarily agree with that ~ whilst some may have be... moreI wouldn't necessarily agree with that ~ whilst some may have been yes, some weren't ~ i've met more than my fair share believe me.
I suspect Go online forums are closer to people who obsessively ... moreI suspect Go online forums are closer to people who obsessively play dungeons and dragons online than to people who live D/s lives.
In the context of online roleplay the be headings seem slightly less ludicrous.
Okay, surely Gor is based on D/s, M/s? I'm pretty sure tha... moreOkay, surely Gor is based on D/s, M/s? I'm pretty sure that it was around long before John Norman wrote his books.
I think that people who scoff at Gor aren't scoffing at the fact that people are following a set of guidelines laid down in a book ~ I mean heck, people do that every day from the Bible to the Koran.... I think it's when people take it that tad too far.
I remember the days in the yahoo chatrooms where if you entered a Gorean themed room you had to use certain protocols and if you didn't you got beheaded ~ I mean seriously?
I don't pretend that I understand it ~I tried reading one of the books but couldn't get past the first chapter, but i'm not knocking the people that want to embrace that way of life.
It makes this one sad that people scoff at Gor because it's not ... moreIt makes this one sad that people scoff at Gor because it's not too different to a lot of elements that can exist within Ds or Ms for a lot of people (what with a lot of it embracing protocol and slave positions and rituals and guidelines on how to do your "job" as a slave well).
This one thinks that if people were scoff at Ds they'd get flammed but sometimes it feels like there's this unspoken vibe that it's less bad to scoff at Gor (which is crazy because if you look closely there are a fair few similarities across the two things). less
All I can say to that is PFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFTTTTTTTTTTTTT... moreAll I can say to that is PFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFTTTTTTTTTTTTT ~ I know quietsoul has "got" to you all and tainted my unblemished reputation. It's fine though, I can rise above it all :).