I think we need a newbies guide to help folks make the most of f... moreI think we need a newbies guide to help folks make the most of fetbook. It was interesting to see a recent member was able to put a pic up and then found it difficult to make it their profile pic. SO anything you wish you'd had a guide to when you first joined?
What works for you when you first take the plunge and agree to m... moreWhat works for you when you first take the plunge and agree to meet someone? Do you have an extensive checklist you go through or do you prefer to "wing it"? Do you prefer meeting at an event/munch/club/fetish fair or in a public place for drinks and a meal?
I'd love to hear your thoughts on this.
While new features seem to be appearing regularly, there are sti... moreWhile new features seem to be appearing regularly, there are still many 'unwelcome features' remain.
So what bug drives you the most crazy?
My vote is for the profile personalization seeming to last only a few weeks then mysteriously disappears with no explanation.
My name is MG im a lifestyle Dominant who enjoyes spanking... moreHello
My name is MG im a lifestyle Dominant who enjoyes spanking role play with various fetish bdsm interests
I write my own well read spanking and fetish blogs and am very involved in the Norfolk uk Comunity.
I host several events inn the area and i have just added several to the events listing if you are interested in attending any please drop me a line for more info.
Regards to all
Many people say the are not bothering to vote because it doesn't... moreMany people say the are not bothering to vote because it doesn't make any difference but far more people don't vote than do and the government sits smugly by knowing they can pick up their inflated salary and expenses continually and the population approves largely because by default if you don't say no you mean yes .
In 1999 the number of people in the UK voting hit a low of 24% and last year only 34.19% voted. Even the most unqualified in mathematics can work out that if those who didn't vote all turned and voted 'NONE OF THE ABOVE' Politics would be given a very bloody nose and whilst immediately it wouldn't change everything Ministers would start to feel very uncomfortable at the sheer power people were beginning to realise they hold.
Years back when the worlds wallets started collapsing and bank m... moreYears back when the worlds wallets started collapsing and bank managers and stock traders started invested heavily in Valium Gordon Browns Government did a backhand deal to rescue Llyods Bank a Uk based bank who traded internationally. They did it not out of generosity but because the money came from the taxpayer .
Fast forward to now and a generous offer is being posed by The Conservative Govt. for the everyday person to be able to invest in the stock market buying Lloyds shares. OOOh you lucky people, Mr C wants you to become speculators and get rich quick and hey you can even buy the shares in an ISA and not pay tax on the dividend. Have you got enough money on your Zero Hours contract pay after shelling out for the rent to your Landlord who's raking it in? Maybe you still have after buying your food and cooking it using gas from those companies the UK sold and now give us no tax income. You may even have enough after paying your extortionate fares to work .
We all love those furry little creatures but don't we all get so... moreWe all love those furry little creatures but don't we all get so sad when they develop dementia and keep repeating the same squeak time after time and then suddenly they get angry and shit their cages until they just turn silent, shrivel up and shuffle off their mortal coil.
WELL GOOD NEWS Scientists have discovered what they think causes it in these cute little creatures and although they haven't developed any drugs yet could be well on the way to developing ways to halt it's progression. Sadly as you may have guessed they've done bugger all for us humans but I'm sure they're working on that so if you're interested read the report linked below:
So FT had a works meeting today in Stoke. He wore a suit. That's... moreSo FT had a works meeting today in Stoke. He wore a suit. That's only the second time I've seen him wear one (not including pictures)
He hates wearing them.... I love seeing him in one.... He only wore one last time because I asked him to.
Ok, he didn't wear a tie today, nor cufflinks...But you can't have everything, can you?... Hmm, or maybe you can???
I love seeing guys in suits... It seems some guys hate wearing them :-(... So....
Suits... For or against???... Answers from both parties appreciated :-)
I am seeking a woman who has a good voice for narrating erotic a... moreI am seeking a woman who has a good voice for narrating erotic audio, XXX content, so not for the faint hearted. If that's you, get in touch. £ renumeration to be negotiated.
Joking about finDomme in a previous topic got me thinking. How m... moreJoking about finDomme in a previous topic got me thinking. How much of your attitude to money is related to your D/s identity?
Personally I feel like the person paying is in the more powerful position. Therefore I want to be the one paying. I want to be Prince charming sweeping my Princess off her delicate little tootsies and removing all stress and peril (except of course for all the peril she'll undergo while helpless under my deviously creative hands). Alas I don't have the funds. FinDommes seem to want the opposite but for similar reasons. How does money affect your dynamic? How would you like it to be? less
What is really bugging me right now is when I sit and write a re... moreWhat is really bugging me right now is when I sit and write a reply to someone's status and push the button to share it and it doesn't share it! It happens more often than not and it's starting to p**s me off now!!!!
Err hi I'd just like to say I agree. The unions are tremendous f... moreErr hi I'd just like to say I agree. The unions are tremendous force for good Beddom. I wouldn't where I am today without the trades unions.
6) If there's something youu don't understand or can't figure ou... more6) If there's something youu don't understand or can't figure out, chances are someone else has had that problem too, Ask around and the solution will appear soon.
So we could do with a newbies guide to fetbook and a newbies gui... moreSo we could do with a newbies guide to fetbook and a newbies guide to BDSM. I'll start on the bibliography. :D However back on topic people!
What I wish I'd known when I first signed up here:
1) There will soon be a time where you use your profile for people you know in real life as well as online so it's worth including details useful to both.
2) To a lot of folks how pretty the profile looks is more important than the information. Don't assume other peoples details and information are accurate and up to date but try to keep yours up to date.
3) Using the same user name and pic on all sites makes it easier for people to find you.
4) Check and modify your privacy and notifications settings ASAP.
5) It's really quick to pop in the basic details and a profile pic. Anything else can wait until you've settled in. less
Also very important is how to get in contact with people who can... moreAlso very important is how to get in contact with people who can help you meet others. Munches are very good for this as well as other fairs, markets etc. The London Munch and LAM do very well in this respct but if you know others who do so It's good to publicise it.