What would you do?
Scenario: You had a 'relationship' with a per... moreWhat would you do?
Scenario: You had a 'relationship' with a person, for numerous and various reasons, it didn't work. You tried, god how you tried but, in the end you had to end it. You tried to be as kind as possible in the relationship, and in the ending of it BUT the other person just can't leave it behind
What would you do?
I just put this up on another site and thought I would put it he... moreI just put this up on another site and thought I would put it here too.
I’ve never understood why some posters feel the need to correct every stray comma in another persons post. I have become a pro at biting my proverbial tongue at the pedants who are incapable at reading a post that isn’t grammatically correct or has a few stray spelling mistakes. Do such people not have the intelligence to work out what is being said when someone has used anything less than the perfect use of an apostrophe?. Instead of grasping what a poster is saying, they instead quote the mistakes, taking the subject off topic so they can lord their superior knowledge over them.
I particularly hate the fact that so many of these pedants think we are all on their side. That we want to join in this unforgivable public mocking. Yes, we know 'uninterested' isn’t the same as 'disinterested' and that, ‘their’ doesn’t mean the same as ‘there’ but most of us aren’t bothered. I mean, ther... less
After a wild night out you find a dead body in your lounge and y... moreAfter a wild night out you find a dead body in your lounge and you can't for the life of you remember how it got there but you do know the big knife sticking out of its chest is going to take some explaining.
There are only two options; a) get rid of the body, b) think of a bloody good excuse.
What would you do?
How would you dispose of the body or how would you explain it all away?
Hello to all the Doms/Dommes/Masters/Mistresses/submissives/slav... moreHello to all the Doms/Dommes/Masters/Mistresses/submissives/slaves and quietsoul.
I have been here a while and thought it was about time I introduced myself. I am a quiet and shy person who prefers staying at home knitting socks for wounded hedgehogs than being out and about on the "scene". I live with my family of marmosets and penguins in the wilds of windy Berkshire (makes note not to eat so many baked beans).
I am the bestest submissive that ever walked the earth and anything I say is right and if anyone else thinks differently they are WRONG (there I used caps so it must be true!).
Oh and if quietsoul reads this or comments on it please ignore her cos she comes from Scottishland and knows nothing.
(This message was bought to you by the letter b for boredom and the number 1 cos i'm alone and fed up!! Oh and it's purely tongue in cheek *smiles sweetly* except the bit about quietsoul).
hi folks, i have been here a while and have some great friends j... morehi folks, i have been here a while and have some great friends just thought i would stop by and say hi to a wider audience, come chat, all friends welcome
I declare the last Sunday of August "Selfie Sunday" The challeng... moreI declare the last Sunday of August "Selfie Sunday" The challenge is to post a selfie on Sunday to this thread!
The best will win a prize that I will find at the car boot sale tomorrow morning!
To help you/inspire you...
Selfies, or what to do, and not to do in your profile photo.
following is an example of a bad selfie.
However you could do it like this...
Let the fun begin, tell your friends and start snapping!
In saying "a sub is a sub" you used labels. :)
And, in explainin... moreIn saying "a sub is a sub" you used labels. :)
And, in explaining your definition of an Alpha sub (which I think is a pretty good one btw, but others are available :) h you could only do so by using labels.
Language is labels :)
I think using alpha to describe first in a stable works well.
I guess if I wanted to describe a submissive who regarded herself as providing ultimate submission I'd go to the other end of the Greek alphabet and describe her as "Omega".
If she thought that made her superior to others I might use "Uber".
So one might say: "his alpha is so omega she's uber". :) less
I always thought an Alpha sub was the first submissive of a Domi... moreI always thought an Alpha sub was the first submissive of a Dominant who had others ~ but I could be (and most probably am) wrong.
I agree, its a very contradictory post. *Alpha* sub does not hav... moreI agree, its a very contradictory post. *Alpha* sub does not have a stronger mind and neither is she more fussy than the submissive who doesn't consider herself alpha. She isn't stronger in will than the none alpha sub; she doesn't laugh and enjoy life more than the none alpha sub and her zest for life is no more and no less than a none alpha sub. You see, most submissives, alpha or not are actually hugely fussy. They only submit once their heart and mind has been captured. If the dominant doesn't have the capabilities of leadership, she simply doesn't submit to him. From your initial post it makes me believe you think otherwise; that none alpha subs role over and take it like doormats... they don't!
I often see slaves/submissives that are in long term relationships with their Master/Mistress/Dominant. At some point in that relationship a second slave/submissive has been added. This is when the long term sub is often named the *Alpha*. Instead of it being a joint poly relationship it becomes m... less
This just caught my eye. The referendum results aren't as intere... moreThis just caught my eye. The referendum results aren't as interesting as I thought they might be. Is an Alpha Sub like an Uber Dom? I see a 'Mirror Mirror on the wall, Who is the subbiest of us all? type scenario. Not for me thank you very much.
* googles the word 'O B E Y ' ............................* oh s... more* googles the word 'O B E Y ' ............................* oh so that whats it means ......jayses no wonder i've a red arse most of the time ......
I believe that no matter the social, educational or fanatical st... moreI believe that no matter the social, educational or fanatical status of a person it does not always equate to their dominance or submission. We are all composed of 2 beings, in some cases the outer being that is moulded from birth to uphold the expectations of class, family or peers, motivated, self-made go-getters who outwardly appear to conform or comply to the goals and aspirations set before them, whilst the inner being will cry out for liberation, the freedom of obeying and submitting, or the most amenable, polite and outwardly demure person can inwardly be a true dominant.
I believe that dominant, submissive or switch natures are genderless, classless and that financial or occupational statuses are irrelevant. If you measure your own importance by the social status of the one dominating or yielding to you then all these factors may well matter.
I feel the inner being, no matter what the outer being wears to conform to the fashionable social stereotyping, it’s all lain bare when the inte... less